The Greatest Risk

the greates risk is avoiding risks

The greatest risk is to avoid all risks.

I was in a bit of decluttering mode last week and was sorting through a pile of old papers, deciding what needed to be kept and what could be recycled, when I came across a poem that I had forgotten about. The poem was called “Risk”, and the part that really stood out for me was this: “The greatest risk in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing.”

It really made me start to think about the nature of risks; why people take them, what prompts us to choose risk over safety, and whether or not I’m taking enough of them in my own life and business. I began to re-evaluate my goals and dreams, and really think about where I want to be at this time next year. And I wonder – am I really doing enough to get myself there? Am I taking the right kind of risks to get there, or am I choosing the path of security instead?  Is my fear of going too far out of my comfort zone preventing me from taking the bigger steps that I need to take in order to make my dreams come true? Is my current comfortable routine going to be what ultimately stifles my dream and prevents it from fully blossoming into something extraordinary?

The greatest risk: settling for the ordinary?

In my last post, I talked about fear, and I really think the reason so many of us are afraid to take the risks that we know are necessary to get us to where we want to be in life comes down to fear. We’re afraid to risk the certainty of the known – whether we’re happy with it or not – for the uncertainty of the unknown. So we settle for what is. And to me this is the greatest risk: turning our lives into something we’ve settled for, and condemning ourselves to always wonder what would have happened… if.

If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary. ~Jim Rohn

This is a concept that was really made clear to me in a book I just finished reading. It was The Alchemist, by Paulo Coelho, and there was a passage in that book that really brought this whole concept of dream related fear home. It’s the part where the boy has been working for the crystal merchant for a while and has made so much money for him that the merchant can now, finally, afford his lifelong dream of going to Mecca, but he tells the boy that he won’t do it because holding onto his dream is what keeps him going and makes his life tolerable; he’s afraid that if the dream is realized he’ll have no reason to go on living.

Most people would rather be certain they’re miserable, than risk being happy. ~Robert Anthony

At first I thought this was an absolutely ridiculous notion… how could the realization of a dream be anything but amazingly incredibly exhilaratingly awesome? But then it occurred to me that maybe, just maybe, the merchant had a point. Maybe, for some people, a big dream is like the shiny bauble that you like to look at but have trained yourself never to touch in case you break it. Or maybe, for some people, the greatest risk is that if they go out and live that dream, it won’t live up to their expectations and they still won’t be happy. And so they hunker down in the misery that they know rather than risk the worse potential pain of a dream that wasn’t what they hoped it would be.

The merchant’s fears: what if my dream doesn’t make me happy?

The thing is, for those with any understanding of LOA, we know that happiness is always an inside job – no thing, no situation, and no dream can bring us happiness – not unless and until we are already happy on our own. All those things and situations and dreams that we want will just add to that pre-existing happiness… but they don’t magically create happiness for us. The key is to get happy now, while you’re working on that dream… because when it does come true, it’ll just magnify the happiness you’ve already chosen for yourself.

Dreams don’t create happiness for us by coming true; they can only magnify the happiness we already have. (Click to Tweet this!)

And if a dream doesn’t live up to your expectations… well, that’s not really a problem either. Because there is always going to be a new dream! That’s just part of life – as we change and grow and gain new experiences and understanding, our dreams evolve right along with us. So if you get somewhere and don’t like it… then change it! Follow a new path or blaze a new trail — that’s what you’re supposed to do! And in the process of getting to that first dream, you will have learned and experienced so many new things that journey itself will have been worth the effort. Trite though it is, life really is about that journey and not the destination… so we may as well enjoy the ride no matter what.

But… is it worth the risk?

We fear so much when it comes to our dreams:  failure, success, discomfort, disapproval, judgment, change… the list goes on. And yet we give up so much by not taking the risk to create the life we dream of, because when we give up on what our hearts truly want, we give up a piece of ourselves. And this is where we really do give up any chance we have for real happiness, because being happy comes from being true to Who We Really Are.

So the question becomes: is it worth the risk? Is it worth doing the things that scare the crap out of you in order to move yourself closer to your goal?

It’s a tough question. And you’re the only one who can answer it. But ask yourself this: If you choose to do nothing… what will the cost to you be in one year? Two years? Ten years?

What if I told you that ten years from now your life would be exactly the same? I doubt you’d be happy. So, why are you afraid of change? ~Karen Salmansohn

The greatest risk doesn’t come from taking risks it comes from always avoiding risks. The greatest risk lies in doing nothing, having nothing, being nothing and becoming… nothing.

Now get out there and shine.

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Nathalie Thompson

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4 Responses to The Greatest Risk

  1. A. September 26, 2013 at 8:27 pm #

    Hi Nathalie!

    I am not on FB, so I am not able to see the poem. You are doing fantastic! your site is so awesome and you only started it this year, so you are totally on track.

    Thank you for this wonderful post! Yes, it is all true, so why do we hide? We should be out there shining to such a degree, others will need shades to walk passed us. How is that for shine?

    Keep shining!

    • Nathalie Thompson September 26, 2013 at 10:04 pm #

      Hi A. — I just emailed you a copy of the poem. ;-)

      P.S. Love your shine! (Going to get my sunglasses now… :-D)

      • A. September 27, 2013 at 7:05 am #

        Thank you so much! That is quite a powerful poem! So, those who venture off to experience things are actually better off for taking risks because they are actually living rather than being slaves and that is what it is all about? But there is more pain in this path. Of course, where there is pain, there is growth, and that is the real reward, but Nathalie, it takes longer to get to where you want to go and more pushing and fighting to get there. It would have been easier to just accept our fate where we were before we wished to venture off. At least that is what the brain says. It is easier to settle and just be like everyone else.

        One guru says that if you know you are god, you do not have these problems. I guess we need to remember that always.

        • Nathalie Thompson September 29, 2013 at 10:55 am #

          It is a powerful poem, isn’t it? I love it because it reminds me of what’s important. My interpretation of the poem is that all the things that we cherish most in life — love, joy, dreams, hope, being true to ourselves — have an element of risk to them. Yes, there is the possibility of pain in all of them, but if we spend our whole lives avoiding possible pain, we will never experience actual love or joy or personal fulfillment. Whenever I think about this, I always start thinking about the song “The Rose”:

          It’s the heart afraid of breaking
          That never learns to dance
          It’s the dream afraid of waking
          That never takes the chance
          It’s the one who won’t be taken
          Who cannot seem to give
          And the soul afraid of dying
          That never learns to live

          When we allow fear to take control of our lives, we forget that we came here to fully live those lives. And taking risks and flowing with change is a part of that. If caterpillars were afraid of change, they would never become the butterflies they were born to be. The “Risk” poem reminds me of this.

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