Can you use LOA to repair a friendship? This question comes from a blog reader who emailed me to ask about fixing a tattered relationship with a friend:
I’m fairly new to the LOA, but am wanting to manifest a restored friendship with a specific person. I’m feeling really positive that it will happen… had 3 dreams recently that included this person and they were positive; there’s just a little doubt and fear every now and again that creeps in. How do I become a vibrational match to manifesting this specific friendship?
This is a great question, and one that I think we all deal with in one form or another, at various points in our lives.
Life happens, and sometimes we drift away from friends. Sometimes there are good reasons for that, and moving on is definitely what’s best for all concerned. But sometimes, we find ourselves in a place where we want to reconnect with people with used to have strong connections with. And yes, we can use the principles of Law of Attraction to help us with this. Here’s how…
What does this friendship mean to you?
Whenever we talk about deliberately manifesting things into our lives, the first step is always to get in touch with the feelings that are at the core of the issue. Ask yourself:
- Why is it that this specific friendship is so important to you?
- What was it about this friendship that was so wonderful?
- How did your friendship with this individual make you feel?
Really get to the heart of what this particular friendship means to you.
What does this person mean to you?
The next step is to think about what it is about this specific person that makes you want to repair this friendship so badly:
- What are her best qualities?
- How does he make other people feel whenever he is around?
- What are his greatest strengths or talents?
In this step, you’re trying to connect, on an energetic level, to the very best that is within this person. Connect with the aspects of this individual’s personality that you admire most, or that you think are their strongest or greatest talents/abilities. (Note that I’m not necessarily talking about job skills here, I’m talking about how that person affects other people, just by being who they are.)
What kind of resolution do you want to see?
Take a few minutes to visualize a positive resolution to the situation – see yourself and this person interacting as friends once again; picture a situation that would be perfect for the both of you. Where are you and what are you doing? See all the details and feel what it’s like to be with your friend again.
Once you’re in a great-feeling, high-vibration place about your situation, reach out to your friend. You could suggest coffee or lunch or drinks or whatever feels right. If your friend is also ready to renew your friendship, then you will now start to build that new relationship together.
How to repair a friendship with LOA
Getting yourself into the right vibrational alignment to manifest a healed relationship with a friend involves the same kind of process that getting into alignment with anything else you want in life does. Get to the core of what it is that you really want (the feelings behind it all), think about what an ideal solution would look and feel like for all parties, and focus on that. When you’re ready take that next step of contacting your friend and see where it goes from there. Best of luck! 🙂
Have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to heal a rift in a friendship? What did you do? What would you suggest our awesome reader try in order to patch things up with her friend?
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